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Here's why you should say hello to your neighbours

Small acts of kindness not only help your neighbours but can also help the person performing the actions feel less lonely.

Loneliness is a universal human experience that can affect anyone, regardless of age, gender, or background. However, research has shown that fostering meaningful connections and engaging in small acts of kindness within our communities can have a profound impact on reducing loneliness, improving quality of life, and enhancing overall well-being.

A 2020 global study conducted by Nextdoor, Brigham Young University, the University of Manchester, and Swinburne University of Technology sheds light on the remarkable potential of knowing just six neighbours in helping with feelings of loneliness.

Let's delve into the study's findings and explore how acts of kindness can create a ripple effect, benefiting both individuals and communities.

Unveiling the link between connections and loneliness

The study focused on the effects of small acts of kindness on feelings of loneliness, quality of life, and well-being. Participants were encouraged to engage in COVID-19 safe acts of support, encompassing emotional, tangible, informational, companionship, and belonging support over a four-week period.

The results were remarkable, revealing a significant decrease in feelings of loneliness among participants: 1 in 10 participants said they experienced feelings of loneliness at the start of the study, the number was reduced to 1 in 20 after the study was completed.

Transforming loneliness into connection

The study highlighted the various forms of support that were instrumental in reducing loneliness among the participants. Let's explore these acts of kindness:

Emotional support

By offering a listening ear, sharing words of encouragement, or simply cheering up a neighbour, participants demonstrated the power of emotional support. These small gestures showed that genuine care and empathy can go a long way in alleviating feelings of loneliness.

Tangible support

Simple acts like mowing a neighbour's lawn, running errands, or helping with groceries provided tangible support. These actions demonstrated solidarity, fostering a sense of belonging and interconnectedness within the community.

Informational support

Providing advice, sharing information about job opportunities, local services, or even recommending doctors showcased the importance of informational support. Such knowledge exchange enhanced participants' ability to navigate their surroundings and establish a stronger sense of community.

Companionship support

Regularly calling a neighbour, engaging in friendly conversations over the fence, or taking the time to establish meaningful connections highlighted the significance of companionship support. Human connection, no matter how small, played a crucial role in reducing loneliness and fostering a sense of belonging.

Belonging support

Contributing to larger neighbourhood efforts, such as participating in a cleanup drive, volunteering, or sharing skills and talents, emphasised the significance of belonging support. These collective initiatives reinforced a sense of community identity and purpose, creating a more inclusive and supportive environment for everyone involved.

The ripple effect: kindness benefits all

What makes the study's findings even more compelling is the reciprocal nature of kindness. Not only did the acts of kindness benefit the recipients, but they also positively impacted the individuals performing them. By engaging in these small acts of support, participants not only reduced the loneliness experienced by their neighbours but also felt a decrease in their own feelings of loneliness. This reciprocity showcases how fostering connections and supporting others can have a profound impact on our own well-being.

The study demonstrates the immense power of knowing just six neighbours in reducing feelings of loneliness. By engaging in acts of kindness and providing support in various forms, individuals can create a positive ripple effect within their communities. Through emotional, tangible, informational, companionship, and belonging support, we can transform our neighbourhoods into vibrant and inclusive spaces where everyone feels connected and supported.

At Marmalade Trust, we believe in the transformative power of human connection. Join us!

For details on the full study, visit To get to know your neighbours and start feeling more socially connected with others, visit


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